#‎lifeskills‬ ‪#‎radicalchanges‬

The quote read ‘It is a truth universally acknowledged that a single man in possession of a good fortune must be in want of a wife.’ And I thought, "Time has been so hell bent on bringing in radical changes in Man's need for a woman & a woman's yearning for a man!" When conversations with women my age and much younger is typically ending with them asking me "Why do I marry?" and I continue saying that's an easy question! But the real conversation is about how do you grow marriage? But, then do you have time for it? Can we have life skill sessions on different kinds of relationships right from high school onwards? If sex education is being delivered to play schools then what's the delay in this?? Aren't we looking around and watching the growing display of hormonal attention as early as in 8 -10 yr old? Haven't we galloped & swallowed up tender childhood, scrapped adolescence, burdened our teens & are moving on wildly, confused & uncertain??

‪#‎mistakes‬ ‪#‎growingup‬ ‪#‎selfexpectation‬

when people make mistakes, they have brain enough to know they are making them!! So when they reach the edge either they fall because they have betrayed themselves more than anyone else or they rise above just because some people also have heart enough to know while making mistakes, that they will drive those mistakes into making themselves & others much better people...some people are like that, that's how the world becomes a much better place to live on !!!

#‎soupforthesoul‬

And she said, you know what I hate most? “It’s not the time which has galloped, time not spent with you, time which hasn’t seen us together……What makes me numb is the impenetrable pane of glacial ice, I pull down every time you have looked into my eyes!” I have devastated us only with my loyalty & time testifies for it!

‪#‎generosity‬ ‪#‎love‬ ‪#‎content‬ ‪#‎peace‬

“The screech from the lure woke her up with a jolt. Bringing herself together from the soothing sting of her dream & the shock of the real, she walked up to the window to see beyond the outer boundaries of the fortress. It seemed like the sky had descended to carpet the western side of the plateau. The kingdom of GENEROSITY was known to have never been at war until now. The south of the fortress already looked berrylicious enough to knot her throat & make her cough. Her LOVE had once blossomed there, it now seemed like an illusion, but it did for sure then. The northern horizon looked like a yellow painting canvas, CONTENT enough to strike a story through her eyes. She could now hear murmurings from the turret which stood diagonally opposite to her chamber, the flame of PEACE has been burning there since eternity!!!”

#smalltalks #bigtalks

And where we stand? Well, she was so convinced that we won't work out together, that it gives her a threat, a shudder, every time we come near, said a wife to her husband! Meanwhile, Osho said "Marriage basically means that you are not able yet to be alone; you need the other. Without the other you feel meaningless and with the other you feel miserable. Marriage is really a dilemma! If you are alone you are miserable; if you are together you are miserable. It teaches you your reality, that something deep inside you needs transformation so that you can be blissful alone and you can be blissful together. Then marriage is no more marriage because then it is no more bondage. Then it is sharing, then it is love. Then it gives you freedom and you give the freedom needed for the other’s growth."