The Good & the bad in your child

Does this statement come from a patriarchal circumstance & gender imbalance scenario? It's agreeable then.. "Boys don't cry!" is an unreasonable response which gives way to angry, trapped, unmanageable emotions... which turns into some negative super power in boys later when they grow into men... This is used as a weapon of self-esteem and superiority with other genders.. Anger is as much part of our emotional being as any other emotions.. As kids use anger also as an meaningful expression of disapproval...to people, things, words used, deeds done and any other annoyance they feel.. its most appropriate to keep all emotions and feelings .. but modulate and tune them to balance...

When children are growing, we see them only happy, sad or angry first. The 3 base emotions are just the start of the diversified traits the child will have. The circle of emotions will start getting wider with age and experience. Never stop any emotion in your children.. let them show up.. the good and bad forms the best in your child

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