Monday 22 October 2012

Am I a stranger in my own country?


This poem is dedicated to child domestic workers who live a life of unfulfilled dreams in their own country.  (Part of my project with National Domestic Workers Movement, India)


Am I a stranger in my own country?
Am I outlander to my own cause?
The life I knew was robbed and battered,  
The time I was in, was taken and mislead!
I left home for a distant land unknown at dawn,
But, hope still flickered in me and thy!

The dream was getting better and that too quicker,
The struggle was bitter and did give jitters, then and there!
But, still life was determined to make things glitter!
The fear did build, it took me to a night that killed, my heart and thy!
Am I a stranger in my own country?
Am I outlander to my own cause?

Days of vain and nights of pain,
Powerless and cramped became my life,
I make your homes clean and bright,
But, you turn me into a stone and thy!
Am I a stranger in my own country?
Am I outlander to my own cause?

Low I stand, frightened of even the ones I’m born,
The parents who sold me or the others who ruined thy!
I am harassed and withered from inside and out,
Merciless encounters do die hard!
Am I a stranger in my own country?
Am I outlander to my own cause?

My mind still plays tidings of tricks,
I walk and run in the beaches of gifts!
The lamp shines on my books and
My rights rise high and thy!
Am I a stranger in my own country?
Am I outlander to my own cause?

Finally, I yawned and gave up torn,
My country gave a sigh and thy!
But, the fight went on for a land or ground,
A piece to bury the remains of me and mourn!
Am I a stranger in my own country?
Am I outlander to my own cause?

Tuesday 9 October 2012

10 ways to save money in our daily routine life



1.       The return of piggy banks into our life
Getting back to old ways is not bad always. Reviving tradition has always been on my agenda personally and professionally. Though, I work in the area of preserving and reviving tangible and intangible heritage. However, since the talk here concerns finance, who can forget our old piggy/penny banks. Why not bring it back into our life? I have tried it and it really plays its trick. I have been trying this for almost 2 years now and it does its job good. I have tried a combination of beautiful terracotta penny jars and colourful boxes installed at ideal places. I even paint these terracotta jars to lend it a more colourful personal touch. The space makes a huge difference in this attempt though. Placing the penny banks and boxes near the main entrance of your house, dining table, dressing table, wardrobe area does work wonders. I and my hubby together saved almost 6K in a year by dropping coins. These jars and boxes really act like monstrous penny snatchers and that small gap in them tempts me to drop in the coins into them. 

2.       The homemade filter coffee mania
If you are a “Bean-o-holic” and need your caffeine on a daily basis, then I’m sure your visits to the Barista’s, Café days, Café worlds and Costa’s are as regular as your need for water. The Espresso, Cappuccino and Café Lattes are part of your regular vocabulary. Why not try different coffee beans at your home and make life cosier? Rather than going for these exorbitantly charged hot brews, celebrate a coffee festival at home. Try different brands (local and international) and have a blast. That’s what we did! Also, I went through this search spree and finally we customized our kind of bean powder. Bean powder from a coffee estate in Coorg which was being exported by a “mami at the local kovil” combined with the “Bru – roast and ground” coffee powder. The result was divine!

3.       Health and Wealth at one go
Skip short auto, rickshaw and bus rides. Walk it through. The walk would have rejuvenated you by getting the toxins out. Now balance it out by dropping this petite saving into the penny jar near the entrance door.  Enjoy a tall glass of ice-tea toppled with lime, mint and ice-cubes to celebrate this two-win moment of health and wealth! You will feel like starting your life all over again after this….



4.       Shed off the pride! Take a chill pill!
I feel losing one’s pride till a point where it doesn’t make a difference to your self-respect is fine. Taking from here, I have no inhibitions in telling people what I want, if asked ofcourse and otherwise too. Rather than buying everything yourself it gets better if it comes as a gift or a used commodity in a good condition! And for a person who always has had an affair with gifts, it surely must not be a problem. This step helps you save a lot in every sphere of your life!

5.       Breaking the taboo of “My housemaid is my right hand”
The Indian household tinkers and twinkles at the sight of its housemaid every time the sun rises and when it comes down. Households are on a constant hunt for the precious maid!  This tradition dates back to generations and breaking it is considered more a taboo than a revolution. I suppose, DIY was considered an unholy way of life. But, as India becomes stronger as an economical power, the sight of this housemaid is diminishing slowly. Why not get ourselves acquainted with the DIY mode slowly and steadily? It sounds crazy and impossible but, it can happen. Maybe having a maid once a day is just enough for us. Do scale your requirement and take a decision! Anyway, it’s not long before this species is going extinct!

6.       Talent and skill pool
Remember what you were good at in your school/college days. Bring it back into your life! It will surely make your life more interesting. You will be amazed on how much you have forgotten about yourself all these years! This whole process will bring back memories of those stress free days to you and make you laugh out loud. Discover yourself and uncover your unused skills and talent. Make use of it and nourish yourself. Why not share what you have? You can further pass on your talent to those who want to learn it and earn a bit. This can be your extra income which u can drop into your piggy banks.

7.       The dirty laundry bazaar
The household market is a world of giants! That too the cleansing brands flood the market with washing products including detergents, germ shields, easy washes, after-wash, bleach and more. Just the laundry products and machines itself can form a bazaar!  I have myself tried dozens of stuff like Tide “nimbu aur chandan” “rose”, Ariel “oxyblue”, Surf excel, Rin, Godrej Easy wash, Surf excel after wash, Rin bar, wheel bar, Rin Bleech, Robin whitener. What I found?  A Rs 20/-  tide pack does as good a job as a Rs 85/- ariel pack. Well the easy washes do help to save our dry clean costs though. The job here is to choose carefully and use minimally. No need to follow the scoop instructions for washing machines. The bars usually melt away during summers so no use for them. Even otherwise I feel they are a waste and make your hands look rusted.           

8.       Advertisement VS Meditation

An appreciation for an advertisement and the process which leads to purchasing the same product varies from person to person. The temptation factor is always high these days because of the rising economy, unending contentment and unique creative.  The way I find out of this temptation is through meditation. I meditate for about 5-10 minutes repeating the name of the product. Once over, I go through the need and want for the product in question again. It sounds unrealistic but, yes I started doing this very recently so I do not know how far it will be a successful way. But, no harm in trying it I suppose! To a certain extent it has already started helping a shop-o-holic like me!


9.       Window shopping
On a boring day, window shopping just peps me up. Moreover, it helps us know the different deals running at different super markets, discounts, value buys and more. It has helped me identify unknown shops in my local areas as I leisurely walk giving myself time to explore each and every shop on the way.

10.   Decking up your house
Why not brighten up the doors and walls at your place with 3D stickers, self-designed posters or paintings and photographs. It helps making your place more cosy and attached rather than brass statues, ceramic models, glass vases or anything which you get with a big price tag on it! Try it once and you will know what I’m talking about!




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